Podcast host, guest & speaker
Somatic sexologist
Erotic liberation & embodied leadership
When all of you can exist,
everything changes.
Before he was a somatic sexologist, Ayce Kyptyn was a youth pastor and an executive leader within a $100M+ international Christian organization. Now a gay trans man, he brings 20 years of professional theological study, advanced practitioner training, and the experience of rebuilding his own life to conversations about desire, identity, and power. He helps individuals, couples, and fellow practitioners tell the truth about what they want and become resourced in getting it.
Ex-evangelical · Purity culture recovery · Religious deconstruction
Co-author of the international bestseller Embracing Your Eros, Ayce gets into what happens when faith and belonging require you to deny what’s alive in you. He speaks to the cost of staying, the cost of leaving, and reclaiming the life force energy you were taught to suppress.
Eros · Identity · Self-devotion · Desire & intimacy
“I transitioned out of devotion to self.”
What do you do when what’s true about you no longer fits the life you’ve built? Through identity, desire, and erotic expression, Ayce explores the self-devotion it takes to make different choices and meet another person without abandoning yourself.
Embodied leadership · Presence & attunement · Belonging
The way you’re met changes what you’re willing to bring forward. Drawing on executive leadership and somatic practice, Ayce explores what it takes to witness someone without deciding who they should become, and create a room where they can ask forbidden questions, build capacity, and act on what they discover.
See & hear Ayce
Watch Ayce in conversation and in practice.
Hear a conversation on Holy Unapologetic.
Listen from 3:42 ↗“Safety is the capacity to remain present while life becomes more intense.”
Get honest about what’s alive.
Build capacity to stay present.
Let truth move through.
Invite Ayce
For podcast interviews and speaking engagements, send your show or event name, audience, topic, format, and possible dates.
aycekyptyn@gmail.com ↗Boulder, Colorado · he / him
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