On your own.
Explore your desire, sexuality, and relationship with your body. Dating again, discovering something new, or beginning intimacy later in life? There’s a place to start.
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Sex & intimacy coaching · Boulder & online
You can
You can
say it here.
You want touch that makes you exhale. To feel met, let yourself receive, and ask for what you want while it’s happening.
Maybe you love your partner deeply and long for a different kind of connection. Maybe your body or desires have changed, and you’re curious about what feels good now.
Or intimacy already feels good. You have an appetite for more.
Bring the curiosity. The desire you keep returning to. The question you’ve almost asked.
Tell me what you’ve been wanting.
Work with AyceInquire below. I’ll email you to arrange a complimentary 15-minute Zoom conversation.
In person · Boulder, ColoradoVirtual · Worldwide
Explore your erotic truthYou’ve contemplated the possibility.
You’ve contemplated the possibility.
Let’s go there.
You know that moment when something stirs in you? A look. A desire. A side of yourself you’d like to let out and play.
We’ll follow that curiosity. Explore what feels true, what turns you on, and how you want to express it.
Expand your range to lead, surrender, ask, and receive. Build the capacity to stay present with your own desire while making room for someone else’s.
Let yourself want more. Leave with the tools and confidence to live it.
Private packagesLet’s get
Let’s get
into it.
We start with a conversation about what you’d like to explore and what would help you get there.
Clients typically begin with weekly Zoom sessions and email support between sessions. In-person immersions in Boulder are available, if desired.
We’ll shape a package that works for both of us.
Work with AyceStart with a complimentary 15-minute conversation.
With your partner.
Understand what each of you wants, practice asking for it, and explore together. You can bring a challenge you keep circling or a curiosity you’re both excited about.
“I can speak my deepest desires and share my rawest truths, without judgment.”
Wild Orchid · Google review
Read more client experiencesMeet AyceThere’s depth here.
There’s depth here.
And a sense of humor.
Ayce Kyptyn
He / Him · Boulder, ColoradoI’m a somatic sexologist and gay trans man with a past life in ministry, missions, and executive leadership.
I know how personal these questions can get. Exploring my own pleasure changed my body, my relationships, and how I live.
We can talk plainly about desire, faith, gender, power, and the things you’ve kept to yourself. I bring attention, directness, and room to enjoy the process.
Training & credentials
Erotic Blueprints™ Certified Coach with advanced practitioner training in Jaiya’s methodology. Certified in Bondassage™. Graduate of Like a Pro training in Betty Martin’s Wheel of Consent®. Continuing studies in Sexological Bodywork.
“This work didn't just change my relationships... it changed how I show up in my life.”
D.T. · Michigan
Before we meetA few things
A few things
to know.
Who do you work with?
Adults across genders and orientations, individually or with a partner. You’re welcome whether you’re beginning, navigating change, or ready to explore more.
Can we work together online?
Yes. Private packages include weekly Zoom sessions and email support. We can also discuss in-person immersions in Boulder.
What happens in a session?
We start with what you want to explore and agree on how to approach it. Sessions can include conversation and guided practice with desire, communication, and boundaries. We discuss the scope of any in-person work together beforehand.
What if I don’t know what I want yet?
Bring what you’re curious about, or what you’ve noticed. Finding words for it can be part of our work.
How do consent and boundaries work?
We agree on the scope of our work and check in throughout. You can ask questions, adjust an activity, pause, or stop.
Is this therapy?
This is coaching and experiential education, which can include consensual, hands-on touch to explore pleasure, boundaries, and connection. Medical and mental health treatment remain with appropriately licensed professionals.
Your next stepHave something
Have something
in mind?
Tell me.
A few honest lines are enough to begin. I’ll reply personally by email and arrange a complimentary 15-minute Zoom conversation with you.
Prefer email?
aycekyptyn@gmail.com
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Sex & Intimacy Coaching
in Boulder & Online
Ayce Kyptyn offers private sex and intimacy coaching for individuals and couples in Boulder, Colorado, and online nationwide. Explore desire, pleasure, communication, and connection with practical, consent-led support.
There is more available in connection, intimacy, and desire than what you’ve experienced so far.
More honesty.
More presence inside your own body.
More aliveness.
This is a space where people slow down long enough to feel what’s actually happening in their lives and relationships.
Where truth becomes easier to speak.
Where the body becomes easier to trust.
Where all of you is welcome.
And where the capacity for connection, intimacy, and erotic expression begins to expand.
Real change.
Embodied.
HOW TO BEGIN
THIS WORK
There are several ways people begin this journey depending on where they are in their life and what kind of container feels most supportive.
Some people begin with private conversations.
Others are drawn to immersive experiences.
Many clients take the opportunity to experience it all!
Each path invites you into greater self awareness, presence, and embodiment.
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The Personal Experience
Your questions, your desires, your curiosity.
Explore desire, identity, pleasure, and expression with private coaching and embodied education shaped around you.
Begin with a complimentary introductory conversation. Work with Ayce in Boulder or online nationwide. Your recommended experience and next steps are outlined privately.
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The Relational Experience
Me. You. The space between us.
For couples and partners who want more connection, pleasure, and room to express what they want. Build practical skills for communicating desire, exploring together, and honoring each person’s experience.
Begin with a complimentary introductory conversation. Your recommended experience and next steps are outlined privately.
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Live Group Experiences
Live group experiences bring people together who are willing to show up honestly and engage with what’s really going on.
There is something powerful about being in a room where presence, attunement, and truth are practiced together.
Witnessing others and being witnessed often expands what becomes possible inside connection, intimacy, and personal expression.
What Working Together
Can Look Like
Every client arrives with their own story, questions, and desires.
This work welcomes curiosity and complexity.
It creates space for the parts of you
that may not have had a place to exist before.
Our work will include honest conversation, somatic awareness practices, relational exploration, resourcing, and guided exercises designed to deepen presence and connection.
The focus is on expanding your capacity to feel, communicate, experience intimacy more fully and on your own terms.
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WHAT CLIENTS SAY
S.Y. | FL
Ayce Kyptyn believes deeply in the people he works with, and that belief shows up in how he shows up: encouraging, grounded, and endlessly generous with his energy.
I'm so grateful for his strength, perseverance, and the work he's doing in the world. Ayce doesn't just support the people around him — he lifts them up along the way to their own success.
D. T. | MI
"This work didn't just change my relationships... it changed how I show up in my life."
"Every meeting with Ayce has been phenomenal. I have learned a lot about myself with their patient guidance. The atmosphere is very welcoming, and I would definitely recommend the experience!"
L.M. | CA
Ayce's presence is so warm and engaging, his heart is as big as the sense of safety he creates, and you can bring absolutely anything to him.
Ayce is also an accelerator: in his presence, you'll be accelerated in your growth, whether it's personal or in your professional business, and you will move forward. It's a powerful combination, and rare to find in his field.
SOMATIC SEXOLOGY SESSIONS
THIS WORK IS FOR PEOPLE WHO…
This work tends to resonate with people who know there is more available in their lives than what they’ve experienced so far.
People who are curious about their inner world and willing to be honest about what’s actually happening inside their relationships.
People who want intimacy that feels alive.
Some arrive carrying experiences that have shaped their relationship with intimacy: survivors of abuse, people who have felt disconnected from their bodies or voices, people exploring identity, gender, expression, orientation or their sexuality, as well as those who are beginning to explore intimacy later in life.
Others come because they are questioning parts of themselves they were never given permission to explore.
Many of the women drawn to this work find themselves longing to feel safe, seen, and supported in the presence of grounded masculine energy.
And many arrive simply because something inside them knows there is more possible than the stories they’ve been given.
I serve people who are devoted to living fully human.
Ayce Kyptyn's Specialties
Somatic Sexologist • Transmasc Powerhouse • Living Transmission
Trauma-skilled transformation rooted in attunement, embodiment, and the kind of congruence that makes change inevitable.
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Erotic Blueprints™ Advanced Practitioner
A framework that identifies five distinct arousal types: Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, and Shapeshifter-offering a map to understanding your unique erotic language and deepening intimacy.
I would not be the person I am today without this methodology! Erotic Blueprints™ Certified Coach with advanced practitioner training.
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LGBTQ+
I've done a deep dive into gender, expression, orientation, and identity on a very personal & professional level.
I'm transmasculine.
I'm gay.
I'm a trauma-skilled provider.
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Somatic Embodiment
The practice of fully inhabiting your body allowing you to feel, express, and connect to your desires with presence, power, and authenticity.
This is where my awakening happened, on the table as a client! I am currently a student of the Institute of Sexological Bodywork, working towards my certification.
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Purity Culture Recovery
I guide people in deconstructing purity culture and religion to own their truth, pleasure, and liberated self-expression.
I spent over 20 years as a professional theologian.
I'm currently an ex-evangelical.
I enjoy deep theological conversations & critical thinking!
A COMMUNITY OF PRACTICE
This work didn’t begin as a career path.
It began as a personal inquiry in my own life's journey.
For this reason this work is deeply personal to me and is heavily influenced by my own lived experience combined with world class training!
The transformation I experienced through embodied and relational work was profound enough that it changed the direction of my life entirely.
I committed to studying deeply with some of the most respected practitioners in the fields of somatics, intimacy, and embodied transformation.
Over the years I’ve trained hands-on with teachers and colleagues whose work continues to shape how we understand connection, presence, and erotic intelligence.
I value collaboration and the continual refinement of skill.
This field grows stronger when practitioners support one another, expand their capacity, and remain committed to learning.
My intention is always to serve clients in the ways that are most supportive for them.
When another practitioner’s expertise is a better fit, I’m always happy to refer people toward the resources that will serve them best.
And when the work aligns, I offer the depth of training, presence, and experience that allows people to explore these parts of their lives with care and integrity.
Many of the people who find their way into my spaces are leaders themselves: practitioners, guides, and professionals who hold space for others in their own work and lives. Professionals who understand the responsibility of holding others and the importance of continuing to do their own work.
The deeper we go in this work, the more essential it becomes to have spaces where we can also be supported, challenged, and witnessed in our own growth.
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