The right room
changes everything.
The people you spend time with shape what feels possible. Come find peers who understand your work, make room for you, and want to see you grow.
Request an invitationJanuary 15–17, 2027 · Oakland, CA · $555
Limited to 40 seats.
Who gets to be
close to you?
You’re the person people come to. You need people you can go to, too.
People you can be honest with about a quiet calendar, an idea you can’t quite name, or how tired you are of holding everything together. People who care about your work and want to know how you’re doing.
The people closest to us shape what feels normal and what feels possible. We want more relationships where we can be ourselves, challenge each other, and celebrate each other’s growth.
That’s why we’re creating Winter Bash. Lindsay and I are building a bigger table. Pulling up chairs for people whose work we want to know. Making room for honest conversation, shared resources, and the kind of relationships that help all of us grow.
A private weekend to share space, relax, enjoy chosen touch, and have the conversations that rarely happen between client sessions. To know each other beyond our work, and get curious about where our lives and businesses could go from here.
You hold a lot. Come be held. Bring your needs, your desire, your ambition, and the part of you that wants more.
Friends you can play with. Peers you can build alongside. Somewhere you can show up without having everything figured out.
Pull up a chair.
Bring all of you.
You spend so much time attending to everyone else. This weekend, you’re part of the experience, too.
You can be respected for your work and still need support.
People Who Get You
People you can talk to about the work, the money, and the parts you usually keep to yourself. Room to meet peers you’d want to call, collaborate with, and know beyond this weekend.
Permission to Receive
Time for relaxation and self-care. Space to enjoy yourself without managing everyone else’s experience.
Touch on Your Terms
Our connection and play spaces are grounded in consent, voice, and choice. You decide whether and how to participate, according to what’s right for you. Your yes, your no, and your changing mind are welcome.
The Unpolished Version
Space to talk honestly about what’s working, what isn’t, and what you want.
Forward Movement
Space to hear yourself, explore what feels stuck, and name what you want to do next. The direction and the next step are yours to choose.
Time to connect.
Room to play.
Estimated hours · All times Pacific Time.
Friday, Jan 15
An evening experience with the full group. Time to arrive, meet the room, and begin getting to know the people you’ll share the weekend with.
Saturday, Jan 16
Morning: Sessions with Ayce and Lindsay, drawing on our expertise as practitioners and the experience we bring to voice, expression, visibility, and the evolution of your business.
Afternoon: An entire afternoon for connection and play in small groups. You’ll be encouraged to head off-site together and build relationships, with a few ideas from us to get you started.
Evening: Return for connection and play with the full group. We’ll set clear consent agreements, with space for your voice and choices about what’s right for you.
Sunday, Jan 17
More sessions with Ayce and Lindsay, drawing on our expertise and the conversations taking shape in the room. Space to ask questions, explore your work, and choose what you want to put into motion.
Your work.
Your name.
Your business.
You’ve invested in your training. You’ve developed real skill. And you may still be fitting this work around another job, watching the calendar stay quiet, or wondering when it will start supporting you.
You want to be known for your own work. To have offers you’re excited to stand behind, clients who understand the value, and enough income to give this work more of your time. Figuring out how to get there can feel lonely.
In our sessions, we’ll explore what you want to be known for, the clients you want to work with, and the offers you want to put into the world. Bring your ideas, your questions, and the places where you feel stuck.
Bring your business questions. Leave the sales pitch at home. This is a space to explore your work together. We ask guests to connect as peers, without promoting or selling services to each other.
You deserve a business
that supports you.
And people who have your back
while you build it.
Bring the idea you’ve been sitting on, the offer you can’t quite explain, or the next move you’ve been putting off. Explore it with peers who are building something of their own.
We’re here to hold, honor, and activate. You choose what you build and take the steps to make it happen.
If you want to keep going, you’ll also hear about ways to work with us beyond the weekend.
Ayce Kyptyn.
Lindsay A. Miller.
We care about who we spend our lives with. People who challenge us, celebrate us, and make it easier to show up as ourselves. Winter Bash is us pulling up more chairs and inviting those people closer.
We’ll be your hosts for a weekend of connection, receiving, and exploring the evolution of your work. We want you to leave knowing people you’d actually want in your life, and having let them know you, too. People who can celebrate your work while building something of their own. A bigger table, with more people willing to make room for each other.
Ayce Kyptyn
Lindsay A. Miller
We hold space for your whole self: the practitioner, the person, the ambition, and the uncertainty. Together, we’ll explore your voice, your expression, and what you’re ready to bring into your work.
We’ll honor the experience you arrive with and invite you to try something, speak up, and let yourself be seen. You choose how you participate and what you put into practice. We’ll meet you there.
You’ve put so much into learning this work. You want people to know what you can do. And you’re tired of trying to figure out every next step alone.
Bring the offer you keep rewriting. The website that doesn’t quite feel like you. The idea you haven’t had anyone to talk through.
We do this work, too. We know how personal it is to put your name, your voice, and your livelihood behind it. We bring experience in holding rooms, shaping offers, creating imagery, and building visibility through websites, SEO, social media, and speaking.
We’ll draw on our lived experience to offer perspective, practical feedback, and resources in real time, so you can see your options and choose your next move.
If this is your world,
come closer.
For practitioners working in sexuality, intimacy, consent, touch, and embodiment, whether you’re established in your practice or finding your footing.
Your work brings you into the intimate parts of people’s lives. Desire. Pleasure. Touch. Identity. The things they’ve barely said out loud.
You know what it takes to meet them there.
This is a room where you get to be met, too.
You don’t need the same training as everyone else. A respect for choice and boundaries, care for the people in the room, and a willingness to show up as yourself are where we begin.
We’re keeping this to 40 people and reviewing every invitation request. We’re looking for practitioners ready for honest, thoughtful conversations, who respect boundaries and bring care for themselves and the people around them.
Winter Bash
January 15–17, 2027
Oakland, California
Hosted by Ayce Kyptyn & Lindsay A. Miller
- Friday, Jan 15
- 7–9 p.m.
- Saturday, Jan 16
- 10 a.m.–10 p.m.
- Sunday, Jan 17
- 10 a.m.–2 p.m.
All times Pacific Time.
Your ticket covers entry to Winter Bash.
Winter Bash is a nonresidential event. Meals, travel, and lodging are not included; attendees arrange and pay for these separately.
All ticket purchases are final. No refunds. Tickets are transferable to a guest approved by the hosts. Finding a replacement and handling the transfer logistics are your responsibility. We’ll send event details to confirmed guests closer to the weekend.
Request an invitationTell us a little about you and your work. Once your invitation is confirmed, we’ll send you the private checkout page. Requesting an invitation does not reserve a place.
The details.
When and where is it?
January 15–17, 2027 in Oakland, California. We’ll send venue and arrival details to confirmed guests closer to the event.
Estimated hours (Pacific Time): Friday, 7–9 p.m.; Saturday, 10 a.m.–10 p.m.; Sunday, 10 a.m.–2 p.m.
Do I have to participate in touch?
No. Connection and play are invitations. We’ll set clear agreements grounded in consent, voice, and choice. You choose whether and how to participate, and you can change your mind. Your boundaries belong here.
Is this for one particular training community?
No. This is a gathering for practitioners across sexuality, intimacy, consent, touch, and embodied work. Different lineages and approaches are welcome.
Will we be working on our businesses?
Yes. We’ll explore your personal brand, offers, visibility, and the clients you want to reach, alongside time for community, self-care, and connection. We hold space for reflection, conversation, and activation. You shape your business and put your next steps into practice. You’ll also hear about ways to continue working with us.
Can I promote my services here?
We ask guests to leave sales pitches and service promotion out of the weekend. Bring your ideas, offers, and questions for exploration and feedback. This is a space to connect as peers and explore what you’re building.
What about meals, lodging, and travel?
Winter Bash is a nonresidential event. The $555 ticket covers entry to the event only. Meals, travel, and lodging are not included. You are responsible for arranging and paying for your own meals, transportation, and accommodations.
Are tickets refundable or transferable?
All ticket purchases are final. No refunds. Tickets are transferable to a guest approved by the hosts. Finding a replacement and handling the transfer logistics are your responsibility.
How do invitations work?
Winter Bash is a private, invite-only event with 40 seats. Select “Request an invitation” and tell us a little about yourself and your practice. We review every request to help shape a room where people are ready to engage thoughtfully and respect each other’s choices. If invited, you’ll receive the private checkout page. Your place is confirmed after registration and payment. When all 40 seats are filled, registration closes.
There’s room
for you here.
Come find your people. Bring what’s yours to build.
Request an invitation