Body & presence
Feel more here.
Explore grounding, nervous system regulation, and embodied awareness. Notice bracing or disconnection, find a pace you can stay with, and practice responding to your body’s signals.
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Single in-person sessions · Boulder, Colorado
Come back
to your body.
You want to feel more. But you find yourself bracing, going numb, or somewhere else.
Private sessions for nervous system regulation, attuned touch, intimacy, and pleasure. A place to slow down, notice what’s happening, and explore what it’s like to receive.
Explore a session with meStart with a complimentary 15-minute Zoom conversation.
One appointment in my Boulder spaceIndividuals & couplesShaped around you
Does this feel familiar?
You’re being touched.
But are you here for it?
You’re thinking about how you look, what comes next, or what the other person wants. You say yes before you know what you feel. Or you want closeness, but your body goes quiet when it arrives.
Maybe you recognize it as dissociation. Maybe you simply know that you feel disconnected from your body and want a different experience.
Or things already feel good, and you’re curious about more: more sensation, more connection, more freedom to express what you want.
Bring that here. You don’t need to arrive knowing which technique to ask for.
A closer look at our work
A space to meet yourself.
Bring the part of you that is curious, hesitant, or at an edge. I’ll meet you with professional skill and steady attention, and help you find resources to stay connected to yourself as we explore.
Clear agreements, regular check-ins, and room to pause are part of how we work together.
Presence before pressure
Slow enough
to feel yourself.
A central part of my work is supporting nervous system regulation and helping you notice when you begin to disconnect. We pay attention to what helps you stay present, what asks for a pause, and what feels like too much.
That may mean grounding, movement, body awareness, conversation, or carefully paced touch. Attuned touch means I listen to your words and responses, check in, and adjust with you.
We practice noticing sensation, expressing a preference, and receiving care without having to perform or immediately give back. There is room for pleasure, and room to take your time getting there.
What we can explore
More of you is welcome here.
Our session follows what you’re seeking and what we agree to explore together. These are possible directions, and we can weave more than one into our time.
Touch & pleasure
Learn what you enjoy.
Body mapping and Erotic Blueprints™ exploration can help you notice different sensations and preferences, put language to your desire, and practice receiving attuned touch.
Intimacy & expression
Let yourself be met.
Explore closeness, asking, boundaries, and the parts of yourself you’ve kept out of view. Bring curiosity about identity, religious conditioning, shame, or how you connect with a partner.
Power & play
Explore surrender by choice.
Bondassage®, sensory exploration, and consensual kink can create room to explore anticipation, trust, power, and receiving within clear agreements. We discuss the experience and boundaries before we begin.
You can ask for something specific or tell me what you’re longing to experience. I’ll help you find a starting point.
Let’s plan your sessionWhat to expect
Space to arrive.
Room to explore.
01 · Connect
We get clear.
Begin with a free 15-minute Zoom conversation. Share what draws you here, ask questions, and discuss fit. We confirm the session focus, length, investment, and booking details before you commit.
02 · Experience
We follow your pace.
In my Boulder space, we take time to settle and review our agreements. Conversation, body-based practices, and any agreed touch respond to what is happening for you. You can pause, adjust, or stop.
03 · Integrate
We let it land.
We close with room to settle and reflect on what you noticed. Together we identify observations or practices you can carry into your own life and relationships.
Your guide
I’m Ayce.
I’m a somatic sexologist and gay trans man with a past life in ministry and executive leadership. I know how much can sit beneath a question about touch or pleasure: identity, faith, shame, and years of being who you thought you had to be.
I bring grounded masculine presence, professional training, and the ability to talk plainly about what you’ve struggled to say. You bring your experience. I bring my attention, curiosity, and a sense of humor.
Erotic Blueprints™ certified coach with advanced training · Bondassage® Certified Practitioner · Continuing studies in Sexological Bodywork
More about Ayce ↗Your session starts here
Tell me what
you’re ready for.
You can be clear, curious, nervous, or unsure how to put it into words. Share what has your attention, and I’ll email you to arrange our complimentary 15-minute Zoom conversation.
We’ll discuss a session shaped around you, including the length and investment, before you book.
Prefer email? aycekyptyn@gmail.com
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NameEmailWhat would you like to explore?Plan my sessionI’ll email you to arrange a time. We’ll discuss the format and investment before you commit.
A few questions
Before we meet.
Do I need to choose a specific kind of session?
No. Body mapping, Erotic Blueprints™, Bondassage®, and other body-based or relational practices are tools we may draw on. Tell me what you want support with, and we’ll discuss an approach together.
Can I book just one session?
Yes. You can come for one focused appointment. If you later want more continuity, we can discuss ongoing coaching, an Immersion, or a VIP Day.
Can I come with a partner?
Yes. I work with individuals and couples across genders and orientations. Tell me who is coming so we can discuss a format that supports everyone involved.
What if I get nervous or start to disconnect?
You can tell me, ask for a pause, or change your mind. We discuss communication and boundaries beforehand, check in throughout, and slow or stop the experience when needed.
Is this psychotherapy or medical treatment?
This is somatic coaching and experiential learning. It does not replace mental health or medical care. We can discuss whether this kind of support is appropriate alongside any care you already receive.
What if I want more time?
The Immersion offers three sessions over one visit to Boulder. The VIP Day offers a personalized full day. Your Erotic Life offers ongoing virtual coaching.
Sex & Intimacy Coaching
in Boulder & Online
Ayce Kyptyn offers private sex and intimacy coaching for individuals and couples in Boulder, Colorado, and online nationwide. Explore desire, pleasure, communication, and connection with practical, consent-led support.
There is more available in connection, intimacy, and desire than what you’ve experienced so far.
More honesty.
More presence inside your own body.
More aliveness.
This is a space where people slow down long enough to feel what’s actually happening in their lives and relationships.
Where truth becomes easier to speak.
Where the body becomes easier to trust.
Where all of you is welcome.
And where the capacity for connection, intimacy, and erotic expression begins to expand.
Real change.
Embodied.
HOW TO BEGIN
THIS WORK
There are several ways people begin this journey depending on where they are in their life and what kind of container feels most supportive.
Some people begin with private conversations.
Others are drawn to immersive experiences.
Many clients take the opportunity to experience it all!
Each path invites you into greater self awareness, presence, and embodiment.
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The Personal Experience
Your questions, your desires, your curiosity.
Explore desire, identity, pleasure, and expression with private coaching and embodied education shaped around you.
Begin with a complimentary introductory conversation. Work with Ayce in Boulder or online nationwide. Your recommended experience and next steps are outlined privately.
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The Relational Experience
Me. You. The space between us.
For couples and partners who want more connection, pleasure, and room to express what they want. Build practical skills for communicating desire, exploring together, and honoring each person’s experience.
Begin with a complimentary introductory conversation. Your recommended experience and next steps are outlined privately.
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Live Group Experiences
Live group experiences bring people together who are willing to show up honestly and engage with what’s really going on.
There is something powerful about being in a room where presence, attunement, and truth are practiced together.
Witnessing others and being witnessed often expands what becomes possible inside connection, intimacy, and personal expression.
What Working Together
Can Look Like
Every client arrives with their own story, questions, and desires.
This work welcomes curiosity and complexity.
It creates space for the parts of you
that may not have had a place to exist before.
Our work will include honest conversation, somatic awareness practices, relational exploration, resourcing, and guided exercises designed to deepen presence and connection.
The focus is on expanding your capacity to feel, communicate, experience intimacy more fully and on your own terms.
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WHAT CLIENTS SAY
S.Y. | FL
Ayce Kyptyn believes deeply in the people he works with, and that belief shows up in how he shows up: encouraging, grounded, and endlessly generous with his energy.
I'm so grateful for his strength, perseverance, and the work he's doing in the world. Ayce doesn't just support the people around him — he lifts them up along the way to their own success.
D. T. | MI
"This work didn't just change my relationships... it changed how I show up in my life."
"Every meeting with Ayce has been phenomenal. I have learned a lot about myself with their patient guidance. The atmosphere is very welcoming, and I would definitely recommend the experience!"
L.M. | CA
Ayce's presence is so warm and engaging, his heart is as big as the sense of safety he creates, and you can bring absolutely anything to him.
Ayce is also an accelerator: in his presence, you'll be accelerated in your growth, whether it's personal or in your professional business, and you will move forward. It's a powerful combination, and rare to find in his field.
SOMATIC SEXOLOGY SESSIONS
THIS WORK IS FOR PEOPLE WHO…
This work tends to resonate with people who know there is more available in their lives than what they’ve experienced so far.
People who are curious about their inner world and willing to be honest about what’s actually happening inside their relationships.
People who want intimacy that feels alive.
Some arrive carrying experiences that have shaped their relationship with intimacy: survivors of abuse, people who have felt disconnected from their bodies or voices, people exploring identity, gender, expression, orientation or their sexuality, as well as those who are beginning to explore intimacy later in life.
Others come because they are questioning parts of themselves they were never given permission to explore.
Many of the women drawn to this work find themselves longing to feel safe, seen, and supported in the presence of grounded masculine energy.
And many arrive simply because something inside them knows there is more possible than the stories they’ve been given.
I serve people who are devoted to living fully human.
Ayce Kyptyn's Specialties
Somatic Sexologist • Transmasc Powerhouse • Living Transmission
Trauma-skilled transformation rooted in attunement, embodiment, and the kind of congruence that makes change inevitable.
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Erotic Blueprints™ Advanced Practitioner
A framework that identifies five distinct arousal types: Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, and Shapeshifter-offering a map to understanding your unique erotic language and deepening intimacy.
I would not be the person I am today without this methodology! Erotic Blueprints™ Certified Coach with advanced practitioner training.
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LGBTQ+
I've done a deep dive into gender, expression, orientation, and identity on a very personal & professional level.
I'm transmasculine.
I'm gay.
I'm a trauma-skilled provider.
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Somatic Embodiment
The practice of fully inhabiting your body allowing you to feel, express, and connect to your desires with presence, power, and authenticity.
This is where my awakening happened, on the table as a client! I am currently a student of the Institute of Sexological Bodywork, working towards my certification.
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Purity Culture Recovery
I guide people in deconstructing purity culture and religion to own their truth, pleasure, and liberated self-expression.
I spent over 20 years as a professional theologian.
I'm currently an ex-evangelical.
I enjoy deep theological conversations & critical thinking!
A COMMUNITY OF PRACTICE
This work didn’t begin as a career path.
It began as a personal inquiry in my own life's journey.
For this reason this work is deeply personal to me and is heavily influenced by my own lived experience combined with world class training!
The transformation I experienced through embodied and relational work was profound enough that it changed the direction of my life entirely.
I committed to studying deeply with some of the most respected practitioners in the fields of somatics, intimacy, and embodied transformation.
Over the years I’ve trained hands-on with teachers and colleagues whose work continues to shape how we understand connection, presence, and erotic intelligence.
I value collaboration and the continual refinement of skill.
This field grows stronger when practitioners support one another, expand their capacity, and remain committed to learning.
My intention is always to serve clients in the ways that are most supportive for them.
When another practitioner’s expertise is a better fit, I’m always happy to refer people toward the resources that will serve them best.
And when the work aligns, I offer the depth of training, presence, and experience that allows people to explore these parts of their lives with care and integrity.
Many of the people who find their way into my spaces are leaders themselves: practitioners, guides, and professionals who hold space for others in their own work and lives. Professionals who understand the responsibility of holding others and the importance of continuing to do their own work.
The deeper we go in this work, the more essential it becomes to have spaces where we can also be supported, challenged, and witnessed in our own growth.
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