Arrive and begin.
Settle in, clarify your intentions and boundaries, and begin exploring what you want help with.
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Three private sessions · My space in BoulderThe
The
Immersion.
Room to let the experience unfold.
You want to feel more. More pleasure. More connection. More freedom to express what’s true for you.
Here, we give that desire time and attention.
Three private, in-person sessions across three days—with space to settle, rest, and return with what’s alive in you.
Ask about The ImmersionStart with a complimentary 15-minute Zoom conversation.
All ways to work with me →One visit to BoulderThree sessions · 90 minutes to two hours eachWeekday & weekend visits
Spaciousness is part of the work.Slow enough
Slow enough
to feel it.
Across three days, we move slowly enough to notice what your body is communicating, make choices, and give your nervous system room to hold and integrate the experience.
There’s time to pause. To receive. To discover something unexpected—and return the next day with what’s alive in you.
This is where the work becomes lived experience. Asking for what you want while someone is there to hear you. Recognizing a boundary and honoring it. Letting yourself receive something you’ve longed for.
These experiences can change how you relate to your body, your desire, and the people you love.
A closer look at our work
Space to meet more of yourself.
In my Boulder space, you have time to meet yourself at your edges and be held through the experience. I bring professional skill, steady presence, and resources to support you as you notice, choose, and integrate.
Clear agreements, regular check-ins, and room to pause are part of how we work together.
The rhythm of your visitArrive.
Arrive.
Explore.
Return.
Three sessions, each shaped by the person arriving.
You might want more ease receiving, confidence expressing a desire, support with a new experience, or a different way of connecting with your partner.
We work with your intentions and what emerges. Conversation, body awareness, consent, and guided experiential learning give you practical ways to explore.
Any proposed touch is discussed and agreed together. Your pace, choices, and boundaries remain part of every session.
Let’s talk about your visitExplore and deepen.
Build on what emerges through personalized, embodied learning around desire, pleasure, receiving, or connection.
Gather and integrate.
Return to what needs attention, gather what you’re discovering, and identify practices and next steps for your life.
Your experienceIn my space.
In my space.
With my attention.
For individuals and couples. Sessions take place in my Boulder space over one visit. The evening, daytime, and morning rhythm can fall during the week or over a weekend.
Each session lasts 90 minutes to two hours. Dates, scope, logistics, and investment are agreed before you book.
“I can speak my deepest desires and share my rawest truths, without judgment.”
Wild Orchid · Google review
Read more client experiencesMeet AyceThe person
The person
you’re hiring.
Ayce Kyptyn
He / Him · Boulder, ColoradoI’m a somatic sexologist and gay trans man with a past life in ministry, missions, and executive leadership.
I know how much can sit underneath a question about sex: faith, identity, relationships, and years of being who you thought you had to be. Exploring my own pleasure changed my body, my relationships, and how I live.
I bring professional training, lived experience, grounded masculine presence, and the ability to talk plainly about the things you’ve struggled to say. You bring your experience. I bring my attention, skills, curiosity, and a sense of humor.
Training & credentials
Erotic Blueprints™ Certified Coach with advanced practitioner training in Jaiya’s methodology. Certified in Bondassage™. Graduate of Like a Pro training in Betty Martin’s Wheel of Consent®. Continuing studies in Sexological Bodywork.
Before your visitA few things
A few things
to know.
How is the immersion scheduled?
Three sessions across three days: an evening session, a daytime session the following day, and a final morning session. Each lasts 90 minutes to two hours. Weekday and weekend visits are available by arrangement.
Where do the sessions happen?
In my space in Boulder, Colorado. We confirm the location details and practical arrangements before booking.
Can I come on my own or with a partner?
Yes. We discuss your intentions, who will participate, and a structure that respects everyone’s choices and boundaries.
Will there be touch?
Touch is never presumed. We discuss the purpose and scope of any proposed activity beforehand. You can ask questions, pause, decline, or change your mind.
Can this connect with virtual coaching?
Yes. We can discuss adding the immersion to Your Erotic Life or continuing with virtual support afterward.
Your next stepHave something
Have something
in mind?
Tell me.
Tell me what draws you to The Immersion. A few honest lines are enough to begin. I’ll reply personally by email and arrange a complimentary 15-minute Zoom conversation with you.
Prefer email?
aycekyptyn@gmail.com
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Sex & Intimacy Coaching
in Boulder & Online
Ayce Kyptyn offers private sex and intimacy coaching for individuals and couples in Boulder, Colorado, and online nationwide. Explore desire, pleasure, communication, and connection with practical, consent-led support.
There is more available in connection, intimacy, and desire than what you’ve experienced so far.
More honesty.
More presence inside your own body.
More aliveness.
This is a space where people slow down long enough to feel what’s actually happening in their lives and relationships.
Where truth becomes easier to speak.
Where the body becomes easier to trust.
Where all of you is welcome.
And where the capacity for connection, intimacy, and erotic expression begins to expand.
Real change.
Embodied.
HOW TO BEGIN
THIS WORK
There are several ways people begin this journey depending on where they are in their life and what kind of container feels most supportive.
Some people begin with private conversations.
Others are drawn to immersive experiences.
Many clients take the opportunity to experience it all!
Each path invites you into greater self awareness, presence, and embodiment.
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The Personal Experience
Your questions, your desires, your curiosity.
Explore desire, identity, pleasure, and expression with private coaching and embodied education shaped around you.
Begin with a complimentary introductory conversation. Work with Ayce in Boulder or online nationwide. Your recommended experience and next steps are outlined privately.
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The Relational Experience
Me. You. The space between us.
For couples and partners who want more connection, pleasure, and room to express what they want. Build practical skills for communicating desire, exploring together, and honoring each person’s experience.
Begin with a complimentary introductory conversation. Your recommended experience and next steps are outlined privately.
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Live Group Experiences
Live group experiences bring people together who are willing to show up honestly and engage with what’s really going on.
There is something powerful about being in a room where presence, attunement, and truth are practiced together.
Witnessing others and being witnessed often expands what becomes possible inside connection, intimacy, and personal expression.
What Working Together
Can Look Like
Every client arrives with their own story, questions, and desires.
This work welcomes curiosity and complexity.
It creates space for the parts of you
that may not have had a place to exist before.
Our work will include honest conversation, somatic awareness practices, relational exploration, resourcing, and guided exercises designed to deepen presence and connection.
The focus is on expanding your capacity to feel, communicate, experience intimacy more fully and on your own terms.
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WHAT CLIENTS SAY
S.Y. | FL
Ayce Kyptyn believes deeply in the people he works with, and that belief shows up in how he shows up: encouraging, grounded, and endlessly generous with his energy.
I'm so grateful for his strength, perseverance, and the work he's doing in the world. Ayce doesn't just support the people around him — he lifts them up along the way to their own success.
D. T. | MI
"This work didn't just change my relationships... it changed how I show up in my life."
"Every meeting with Ayce has been phenomenal. I have learned a lot about myself with their patient guidance. The atmosphere is very welcoming, and I would definitely recommend the experience!"
L.M. | CA
Ayce's presence is so warm and engaging, his heart is as big as the sense of safety he creates, and you can bring absolutely anything to him.
Ayce is also an accelerator: in his presence, you'll be accelerated in your growth, whether it's personal or in your professional business, and you will move forward. It's a powerful combination, and rare to find in his field.
SOMATIC SEXOLOGY SESSIONS
THIS WORK IS FOR PEOPLE WHO…
This work tends to resonate with people who know there is more available in their lives than what they’ve experienced so far.
People who are curious about their inner world and willing to be honest about what’s actually happening inside their relationships.
People who want intimacy that feels alive.
Some arrive carrying experiences that have shaped their relationship with intimacy: survivors of abuse, people who have felt disconnected from their bodies or voices, people exploring identity, gender, expression, orientation or their sexuality, as well as those who are beginning to explore intimacy later in life.
Others come because they are questioning parts of themselves they were never given permission to explore.
Many of the women drawn to this work find themselves longing to feel safe, seen, and supported in the presence of grounded masculine energy.
And many arrive simply because something inside them knows there is more possible than the stories they’ve been given.
I serve people who are devoted to living fully human.
Ayce Kyptyn's Specialties
Somatic Sexologist • Transmasc Powerhouse • Living Transmission
Trauma-skilled transformation rooted in attunement, embodiment, and the kind of congruence that makes change inevitable.
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Erotic Blueprints™ Advanced Practitioner
A framework that identifies five distinct arousal types: Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, and Shapeshifter-offering a map to understanding your unique erotic language and deepening intimacy.
I would not be the person I am today without this methodology! Erotic Blueprints™ Certified Coach with advanced practitioner training.
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LGBTQ+
I've done a deep dive into gender, expression, orientation, and identity on a very personal & professional level.
I'm transmasculine.
I'm gay.
I'm a trauma-skilled provider.
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Somatic Embodiment
The practice of fully inhabiting your body allowing you to feel, express, and connect to your desires with presence, power, and authenticity.
This is where my awakening happened, on the table as a client! I am currently a student of the Institute of Sexological Bodywork, working towards my certification.
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Purity Culture Recovery
I guide people in deconstructing purity culture and religion to own their truth, pleasure, and liberated self-expression.
I spent over 20 years as a professional theologian.
I'm currently an ex-evangelical.
I enjoy deep theological conversations & critical thinking!
A COMMUNITY OF PRACTICE
This work didn’t begin as a career path.
It began as a personal inquiry in my own life's journey.
For this reason this work is deeply personal to me and is heavily influenced by my own lived experience combined with world class training!
The transformation I experienced through embodied and relational work was profound enough that it changed the direction of my life entirely.
I committed to studying deeply with some of the most respected practitioners in the fields of somatics, intimacy, and embodied transformation.
Over the years I’ve trained hands-on with teachers and colleagues whose work continues to shape how we understand connection, presence, and erotic intelligence.
I value collaboration and the continual refinement of skill.
This field grows stronger when practitioners support one another, expand their capacity, and remain committed to learning.
My intention is always to serve clients in the ways that are most supportive for them.
When another practitioner’s expertise is a better fit, I’m always happy to refer people toward the resources that will serve them best.
And when the work aligns, I offer the depth of training, presence, and experience that allows people to explore these parts of their lives with care and integrity.
Many of the people who find their way into my spaces are leaders themselves: practitioners, guides, and professionals who hold space for others in their own work and lives. Professionals who understand the responsibility of holding others and the importance of continuing to do their own work.
The deeper we go in this work, the more essential it becomes to have spaces where we can also be supported, challenged, and witnessed in our own growth.
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