📣 New Event: THE EROS COLLECTIVE!

Welcome to The Eros Collective

Five years ago, I walked into a room that changed the trajectory of my life.

The Eros Collective exists because I believe everyone deserves that opportunity.

Our next event will be hosted in Oakland, CA September 25-27.

Over three unforgettable days, you'll move through a carefully curated journey designed to awaken curiosity, deepen connection, and expand your relationship with yourself and others. Through immersive experiences, meaningful conversations, embodied practices, and a room full of extraordinary humans, each experience builds on the last inviting you to explore your eros with honesty, choice, and play.

THIS EVENT INCLUDES AN ADULT PLAY PARTY!

LEARN MORE HERE!

WHAT TO EXPECT

EVENT FLOW

Friday Evening | The Masquerade with Ayce Kyptyn

An evening designed to captivate, connect, and awaken curiosity.

Through story, conversation, and a room full of extraordinary humans, Ayce invites you to inquire into your own journey with eros. You'll leave with an embodied experience, tangible resources to support what's next, and a community that reminds you you don't have to walk this path alone. Core memories don't happen by accident. They happen in rooms like this.

Saturday Morning | BeforePlay with Kristin Warnaca

The Conversation We Never Learned to Have, and Permission to Belong to Yourself

The most intimate moments don’t begin with touch. They begin with truth.

BeforePlay is an invitation to discover that the quality of your relationships is shaped long before anyone says yes, no, or maybe.  Through stories, guided reflection, meaningful conversation, and embodied practice, you’ll explore erotic sovereignty, and how to communicate with clarity and compassion. Together, we’ll practice the conversations most of us were never taught to have: the ones that create safety, deepen connection, and make genuine pleasure possible. You’ll leave with a practical framework you can use in every relationship, greater trust in your own voice, and one simple reminder: the greatest permission you’ll ever receive isn’t from a partner; it’s the one you give yourself.

Saturday Afternoon | Connect with the Community

The most meaningful relationships rarely begin with small talk.

Through intentionally curated experiences, you'll laugh, play, challenge yourself, and create genuine connection with the people around you.

This is where community develops.

Saturday Evening | Explore & Expand with Deborah Kat

As the room deepens, so does the invitation.

Together we'll explore intimacy, communication, touch, conscious kink, power, pleasure, and play inside a highly intentional, consent-centered container where your choice is always honored and your boundaries are always respected. *THIS WILL BE AN ENTRY LEVEL ADULT PLAY PARTY.

Sunday | Erotic Truth with Lindsay Miller & Embodied Shapeshifter Experience with Ayce Kyptyn

A day designed to reveal, expand, and embody.

Through breathtaking imagery and deeply moving stories, Lindsay Miller invites you to witness people standing at that raw edge between pain and possibility and to inquire into your own erotic truth.​

Then, step out of your mind and into your body.

The Shapeshifter Experience offers a rare opportunity to explore touch, giving, receiving, and connection through Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent. Grounding. Expansive. Unforgettable. You'll leave with an embodied experience of what's possible, a deeper relationship with your own truth, and a greater capacity to connect with yourself and with others.

Some experiences teach you something. This one lets you become it.

Five years ago, I walked into a room that changed the trajectory of my life.

The Eros Collective exists because I believe everyone deserves that opportunity.

If you think this might be your room... trust that feeling.

We'll save you a seat.

DISCOUNTED TICKET FOR THE FIRST 5 REGISTRANTS ONLY AVAILABLE HERE!

MEET THE TEAM

Lindsay Miller

A photographer who captures the humanity beneath the pose, creating images that remind people who they've always been.

Kristin Warnaca

After leaving a religious cult, Kristin now helps people rewrite the stories they've inherited about sex, pleasure, and personal freedom.

Deborah Kat

A Tantra practitioner guiding people into deeper presence, embodied intimacy, and authentic connection through the wisdom of the body.

Ayce Kyptyn

A trans man helping people reclaim the parts of themselves they've spent a lifetime hiding, so they can live with radical truth, intimacy, and freedom.