“I can’t get out of my head.”
You want to feel more, but you’re monitoring every move. We notice when you brace, rush, or lose touch with sensation, then find words for the pace, touch, or pause that helps you stay present.
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Sex & intimacy coaching · Individuals & couples
When all of you
can exist,
everything changes.
Get out of your head. Ask for what you want. Feel more connected in your body and with each other.
I’m Ayce Kyptyn, a somatic sexologist. Bring me the question you’ve been carrying. I’ll bring the tools, attention, and experience to help you work with it.
Let’s talkStart with a complimentary 15-minute Zoom conversation.
Explore ways to work together ↓Virtual worldwide · In-person Boulder, CO
ME. YOU. THE SPACE BETWEEN US.Professional training. Lived experience. Personal attention.
Erotic Blueprints™ certified coach with advanced training Wheel of Consent / Like A Pro Bondassage® certified practitioner
There’s a reason you’re here.
You’ve Googled it.
You still haven’t said it out loud.
You want to enjoy your body. Feel wanted. Reach for each other without wondering whether you’ll get it wrong.
“We love each other. We keep missing each other.”
You want different things. The conversation goes in circles, or reaching for each other starts to feel like pressure. We make room for both of your desires and boundaries, and practice asking, listening, and responding without making closeness an obligation.
“There’s something I want. I don’t know how to ask.”
A desire you’ve never said out loud. A part of your identity. A rule you’re ready to question. Bring it here. We’ll find language for what you want and explore what comes next, with a pace and boundaries we agree together.
Or maybe life is already beautiful, and you’re curious what else is possible.
Come closer. There’s room for all of it here.
From the people I work with
What it feels like
to work with me.
“I can speak my deepest desires and share my rawest truths, without judgment.”
“If you have religious shame to unpack, want to experience more pleasure, or explore your gender identity Ayce is your man.”
Work with me
Your body. Your desire.
Let’s get into it.
Bring me the question you’ve been carrying. We’ll work with what happens in your body and between you and someone else: the breath you hold, the request you swallow, the touch you want more of. Find the words. Practice asking, receiving, and responding.
Virtual worldwide · Individuals & couples
Your Erotic Life
Three months · Six private 60-minute sessions.
Personalized practices and brief check-ins between sessions. Try something in your own life, then bring back what happened: the request you made, the moment you held back, or the connection you want more of. You have someone to ask, practice with, and return to.
Explore virtual coachingBoulder, Colorado · Individuals & couples
In-person experiences
Work with touch, sensation, and connection in person. Practice saying “slower,” “stay there,” or “I’d like to try leading,” with room to pause and change your mind. We agree on the scope and boundaries before we begin.
Explore in-person workNot sure which fits? Let’s talk about what you want →
Why Ayce · The person you’re hiring
Your truth is
the turn-on.
There’s what you say you want. And then there’s what you might admit if you knew there was room for it.
The slower touch. The stronger invitation. The freedom to receive.
I know what it costs to choose yourself. I spent 20 years studying theology and served as a youth pastor and executive leader within a $100M+ international Christian organization. Today, I’m a gay trans man and somatic sexologist.
“I didn’t transition because I was in the wrong body. I transitioned out of devotion to self.”
A question about sex can carry faith, identity, relationships, and years of being who you thought you had to be. You can bring that whole story. I understand that choosing differently can have real consequences, and I take yours seriously.
I bring grounded masculine presence, a direct way of talking about sex, and tools for working with desire, consent, touch, and connection. We can notice where you hold back, practice making a request, and explore what helps you stay present as intimacy becomes more intense.
I take your truth seriously. And I believe there’s room to have a damn good time along the way.
Explore my training and approach
Studied with David Bedrick (The UnShaming Way) · Studied with Dr. Gabor Maté (Compassionate Inquiry) · Wheel of Consent / Like A Pro · Erotic Blueprints™ certified coach with advanced training · Bondassage® certified practitioner · Continuing studies in Sexological Bodywork
We notice what’s happening in your body, find language for what you want, and practice asking, listening, and responding. Choice, consent, and room to change your mind are part of the work.
Your first move · Complimentary · 15 minutes on Zoom
Let’s talk about what you want.
You don’t have to figure it out before we talk. Bring the question you’ve been carrying, the place you feel stuck, or the experience you want more of. I’ll bring the tools and support to help you move toward it.
Prefer email? aycekyptyn@gmail.com ↗Virtual worldwide · In-person Boulder, CO
Your name
Your email
What’s drawing you here?Come Closer: 15-minute Zoom conversationPrivate work for myselfPrivate work for usI’m still finding the words
Anything you want me to know? (optional)
Request a conversation →I’ll reply personally to coordinate a time. Please avoid sharing sensitive personal details here. Prefer email? Write to aycekyptyn@gmail.com.
For practitioners
The right room
changes everything.
Clarify what you offer, build your visibility, and connect with people who understand your work. Explore business support, cohorts, and practitioner gatherings.
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