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When did you learn to abandon yourself?

  • Jan 14, 2025
  • 1 min read

I grew up in a conservative, republican, christian household. And I learned how to abandon myself at a very young age.


Our society teaches us to adhere to its rules, many of which are rooted in religion, family dynamics, and cultural expectations. It’s an effort to strip away our power, control, and autonomy.


Why do we live by these rules? 


Critically think on this…when you do, you may realize like I did.


These rules are simply made up. Someone somewhere had this brilliant idea.


We don’t have to live by them.


My life changed the moment I said: fuck religious and societal norms.


Up until this point in my life I had lived for everyone else.


I had given up my own wants, needs and desires because I thought they were bad, wrong, and that I was broken and sinful. And I was dying inside.



Ayce Kyptyn


 
 
 

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Ayce Kyptyn has played a profoundly healing role in my journey back into the community after more than 10 years away. Living with chronic PTSD, I found in Ayce someone who offered unwavering support, deep compassion, and gentle guidance that helped me feel safe enough to re-emerge. Through his events, such as KinkBound and personal encouragement, I was able to open up in ways I hadn’t in years—reconnecting with my silly, playful side as well as my sensual, sexual self. Ayce also helped me realize it was not only okay, but important, to seek therapy, which has been life-changing. I cannot repay what Ayce has given me. His events are consistently upscale and luxurious, creating beautiful, well-held spaces for connection and exploration. I am truly honored and deeply grateful for his support, wisdom, and compassion. Thank you, Ayce. You’ve made a lasting difference in my life. — The Sydney Sol

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