THE WORK THAT TRANSFORMED MY LIFE
Several years ago I watched the Netflix series Sex, Love & Goop. Something in me immediately recognized the work happening on that screen. The way the practitioners guided people into their bodies. The honesty around pleasure and desire.
The way people began discovering parts of themselves they had never been given permission to explore.
I remember watching it and thinking one simple thing:
I need that in my life.
So I went and found it.
What followed was years of studying and working directly with the practitioners whose work inspired that show including Jaiya and Ian Ferguson, creators of the Erotic Blueprints™, and Darshana Avila, whose hands-on approach to embodiment and pleasure has influenced thousands of people around the world. This work didn’t remain something I watched on a screen.
I immersed myself in it.
Very few practitioners have had the opportunity to study this work so closely with the teachers who helped bring conversations about pleasure, intimacy, and embodiment into the mainstream.
Even fewer integrate those teachings with:
• somatic embodiment
• erotic intelligence
• relational truth
• nervous system awareness
The work I offer today is the direct result of my immersion in this field.
THE LONGING
There was a long stretch of my life where something inside me ached
in ways I didn’t yet have language for.
From the outside, my life looked successful.
Inside, there was a quiet despair I carried with me most days.
I felt disconnected from my body.
Disconnected from desire.
Disconnected from the version of myself I sensed was possible,
but didn’t yet know how to reach.
There was a constant question underneath it all:
Is this really it?
Or is there something more alive waiting for me on the other side
of the truth I was afraid to admit?
THE LIFE I LIVE TODAY
Today my life looks very different.
I am a thriving gay trans man living a life that is honest, embodied, and deeply aligned with who I actually am.
My relationships are rooted in clarity and consent.
My connection to my body is alive and curious.
And yes... my erotic life is expansive, playful, and kinky AF.
Not because I chased some fantasy version of life.
But because I stopped abandoning myself and started following the truth my body had been asking for all along.
The work I offer today is rooted in that journey.
Because I know what it feels like to live in the quiet ache of disconnection.
And I know what becomes possible when you finally stop hiding from the life that wants to emerge.
My Story
More to come soon!