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DEEPENING EROS IS FOR YOU!

A weekend devoted to pleasure, presence, and the kind of intimacy that deepens your love and electrifies your desire.

 

You love each other, you like each other and the idea of growing together through your intimacy turns you on

just as much as getting off does join us this Valentines day!

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Whether you’ve been journeying together for decades or have newly embarked on your romance, even the most solid couples tend to fall into rhythms and routines that leave parts of each person’s eroticism out of the equation. ​ 

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This is your chance to fill in those gaps, gain new perspectives and embody new skills through this highly experiential playshop.

Prepare to go deeper and wider into your erotic expression and intimate connection than ever before.

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For the first time ever, experience the delights of Erotic Wholeness in tandem with the insights of the Erotic Blueprints. 

 

These two complimentary wisdom bodies offer a rocket boost to your loving, inviting you to explore a range of energetic and embodied possibilities, attune to your authentic desires and co-create sensual encounters that’ll blast you out of your typical routines and into a

new realm of pleasure potential, together. 
 

IF YOU’VE SEEN SEX, LOVE & GOOP, YOU ALREADY KNOW WHAT COULD BE POSSIBLE!

When Erotic Wholeness and the Erotic Blueprints come together,

something extraordinary happens — your pleasure expands, your connection deepens, and your erotic life becomes a place of real transformation.

WHAT TO EXPECT

EVENT FLOW


Friday Night: Sip, snack and settle into our sacred space, with a ritual opening of our container, chances for questions and connection, and an evocative demo to properly whet your appetite for the main event


Saturday 1st Session: Our journey begins with the Erotic Blueprints, with Ayce guiding you to map these on your body and experience the range of possibility that awaits you as explore across the spectrum of Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, Energetic and Shapeshifter.


Saturday Lunch: Let the sensual feast continue with a selection of delicacies and delights to fortify your body, mind and spirit. Translation- lunch will be provided and we’ll be sure to account for any dietary accommodations.


Saturday 2nd Session: It’s time to give and receive Darshana’s signature Whole Bodywork experience, a head-to-toe-and-everywhere-in-between erotic infusion where one partner focuses on the other in turn, facilitating a sensual massage like none other

WHAT YOU GET

  • A new level of communication intimacy — spoken, unspoken, whispered through breath and body — so you can meet each other with clarity, honesty, and turn-on.

  • The ability to read and respond to one another’s bodies, hearts, and desires with a depth that feels instinctive, intuitive, and unmistakably attuned.

  • An embodied map of your Erotic Blueprints — guided by Ayce — giving you the skill and confidence to meet each other’s erotic language with precision, play, and permission.

  • Step-by-step guidance in offering and receiving Darshana’s signature Whole Bodywork experience: a slow, sensual, full-body immersion that transforms touch into devotion and connection into art.

  • A beautifully held, trauma-aware space where consent, choice, and presence shape the experience — allowing you to explore new edges without losing your sense of safety or sovereignty.

  • A relational recalibration that you can feel: deeper connection, expanded desire, renewed erotic possibility, and a shared sense of “this is what we’ve been craving — together.”

Meet The Team

Your Investment
This will be an intimate - nonresidential event.

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Early Enthusiast:  $1250 per couple (Only 3 spots available)

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​Included Bonus #1: Access to both of Darshana’s Erotic Wholeness Self Paced Journeys for a lifetime of guidance you can dip into anytime, anywhere.
Included Bonus #2: 3 entries into our V-Day Raffle (winner will be announced during the playshop and receive a surprise gift!)

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Second Wave Sensualist: $1750 per couple

Last Minute Lovers: $2000 per couple​

If you have questions feel free to email us at:

Info@darshanaavila.com

or

Aycekyptyn@gmail.com

FAQ


Who’s this for?

Couples of all genders and sexual orientations who are excited to have their own partnered erotic experience in an intimately sized, lovingly guided group ritual space. Your guides are a queer cis woman (that’s Darshana!) and a ___ trans man (that’s Ayce!) well versed in supporting people in different styles and stages of relationship in trauma informed, culturally sensitive ways.


How do I know if this is the right event for my partner and I?

You’re in a fundamentally good place in your relationship with one another and within yourselves. You understand that this is not therapy, nor a space where there will be significant emotional processing going on. The prospect of stepping into a sensual and sexually-focused playshop that emphasizes shared physical and energetic connections feels aligned for you. 


Just how sexual will we be getting?

This playshop will include nudity, sensual touch and one directional manual genital stimulation (one partner using hands on the other at a time). You will only be interacting with your partner, yet you will be in shared space with other couples, so you’ll see and hear others as they will you.


What if I don’t want to do something that’s being demonstrated?

You’ll be thanked for your discernment and supported to adapt the experience to meet you and your partner’s mutual comfort level. Everything presented is an invitation, not a command, and ongoing enthusiastic consent is the underlying foundation of all we’ll explore. You get to change your mind at any moment in time.


Where is this happening?

We’ll be in a private venue in Oakland, CA where you can be assured that your full expression is welcome. Exact address and further details will be shared with those who register.


What’s the schedule?

Friday, February 13 from 6-9pm and Saturday, February 14 from 10am - 6pm, breaks and Saturday lunch included.


How many people will be attending?

We are capping this at 8 couples to create an intimate field and ensure adequate guidance and support are available to everyone.


What’s your refund policy?

Given the intimate size of this event, we are not able to offer refunds. If you change your mind or are unable to attend for some reason, you may transfer your enrollment to someone else.

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