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Are you safe to be with?

  • Aug 17, 2024
  • 1 min read


Many of us want to feel like we are safe to be around.


But I’ve been in this inquiry for a while now: do people actually feel safe in our presence?


Do people actually feel safe with me?

And more importantly are people safe with me?


It starts with me.

Is it safe for me to be in my presence.

Call I allow all of myself to exist with me.

Can I be present with whatever arises?

Can I hold space for the emotions and feelings that exist within myself?


Can I trust myself?

Do I have me?


It’s only then that I can be safe to be around.

 
 
 

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Ayce Kyptyn has played a profoundly healing role in my journey back into the community after more than 10 years away. Living with chronic PTSD, I found in Ayce someone who offered unwavering support, deep compassion, and gentle guidance that helped me feel safe enough to re-emerge. Through his events, such as KinkBound and personal encouragement, I was able to open up in ways I hadn’t in years—reconnecting with my silly, playful side as well as my sensual, sexual self. Ayce also helped me realize it was not only okay, but important, to seek therapy, which has been life-changing. I cannot repay what Ayce has given me. His events are consistently upscale and luxurious, creating beautiful, well-held spaces for connection and exploration. I am truly honored and deeply grateful for his support, wisdom, and compassion. Thank you, Ayce. You’ve made a lasting difference in my life. — The Sydney Sol

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