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How Can We Manage the Fight-or-Flight Response During Imminent Threats?
We’ve all been in a space of imminent threat at some point in our lives. When faced with an “imminent threat,” our nervous systems...
Feb 20, 20251 min read


When did you learn to abandon yourself?
Our society teaches us to adhere to its rules, many of which are rooted in religion, family dynamics, and cultural expectations.
Jan 14, 20251 min read


Authentic Expression: Female to Male.
I started the medical transition process 2 years ago today! There comes a point where the internal pain is greater than the pain from the...
Jan 13, 20251 min read


Post-Traumatic Growth through Somatic Sexology
We instinctively avoid our experiences (thoughts, feelings, emotions, sensations, and memories) because we fear all the emotions tied to...
Jan 13, 20251 min read


Somatic Sexology: This is Sacred Work!
AS A SOMATIC SEXOLOGIST, I AM PROFESSIONALLY RESOURCED TO HELP MY CLIENTS EXPLORE THEIR GENDER, IDENTITY, EXPRESSION, AND ORIENTATION.
Dec 28, 20241 min read


This is sacred work: I’m on a mission to help individuals authentically express themselves!
As a Somatic Sexologist, I am professionally resourced to help my clients explore their gender, identity, expression, and orientation....
Dec 22, 20242 min read


How My Personal Struggle Led to the Start of My Business: A Reflection
I spent 38 years repressing who I was, because I believed I was wrong, bad, broken, and sinful. This mentality nearly killed me. I lost...
Dec 21, 20241 min read


Dissociation and Nervous System Regulation
Dissociation can be a temporary coping mechanism that's vital to survival.
Dec 3, 20241 min read


We all long to: love and be loved.
The brilliance of this work is found in its capacity to reconnect us to our authentic selves. Because at some point in our journey, we...
Nov 24, 20241 min read


Loneliness in Loss
So much of the struggle we all face is simply loneliness in loss. If someone can feel the presence of you & your love Without the...
Oct 29, 20241 min read


Do what’s right for you…
Do what's right for you!
Oct 29, 20241 min read


"Exploring Somatic Embodiment: Unraveling the Mysteries of the Mind-Body Connection
Let's explore the depths of somatic embodiment and unlock the secrets of the mind-body connection. Embrace the transformative power of...
Oct 17, 20243 min read


How Do You Give Yourself Permission to Play?
When I first started my healing journey, I had a hard time letting go of all of the conditioning. I had internal longings: Desires that I...
Oct 17, 20241 min read


When you are true to yourself, your energy shifts.
I remember the day I said “I can’t live like this anymore.” I was living an incongruent lifestyle & I was so over it. The reality is, we...
Oct 15, 20241 min read


How a Helping Hand and the Power of Love Can Change Everything
There’s a time I thought my life was over. Maybe you have been in this space as well. It’s dark. It’s lonely. It can feel utterly...
Oct 14, 20241 min read


Unleashing Your Authentic Desires: A Journey to Self-Discovery
* Be clear: Understand what you want and why you want it * Ask: Make your request known * Believe: Trust in your ability to achieve your...
Oct 13, 20241 min read


When did you learn to abandon yourself?
I abandoned who I was for years, because it felt unsafe to be me. Creating safer spaces to ask the hard questions, acknowledge the truth,...
Oct 12, 20241 min read


We all desire presence
I firmly believe we all desire presence. The ability to be present with ourselves and also with others. This only happens when we...
Oct 10, 20241 min read


Erotic Blueprint: Rare Opportunity
On my two year anniversary of solopreneurship I’m offering my community an opportunity to join the Erotic Blueprint community and get the...
Oct 10, 20241 min read


Are you safe to be with?
Many of us want to feel like we are safe to be around. But I’ve been in this inquiry for a while now: do people actually feel safe in our...
Aug 17, 20241 min read
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